Before
the 12th century in Europe, love was not a romantic thing. People got
married for socioeconomic reasons. Today, however, marriages are mostly
based on love rather than other considerations (although, of course, there
are gold diggers but they are in the minority).
A
career is not that different from a marriage: people want the security and
the stability without the feeling of bondage.
Although
some people do succeed in finding work that fulfills their heart, challenges
their mind and provides fair compensation, it seems that for the
overwhelming majority of people, their job is mostly an "unhappy
marriage" or an unfulfilling relationship. But why then would they stay
if they're unhappy? Perhaps for the same reason a (usually female) spouse
would, in the old days, stay in a loveless marriage: for stability and
security.
Given
the war for talent, greater job information accessibility, the rise of
talent as a significant factor of production and people's growing awareness
that work should be more than just "work," will we see the
emergence of "romantic" careers -- that is, careers based on what
one truly loves to do?
Will
"romantic" careers replace purely pecuniary or utilitarian careers
in the same way that love-based marriages and relationships have replaced,
since the 12th century, utilitarian marriages based on securing
socioeconomic advantage and security?
My
feeling is that at first, only a few people will dare to dream of a career
based on their passion and talent. As they dream about this seemingly ideal
career, they will begin to reshape -- often unconsciously -- the way they
view life, society and their own role in it as a unique, creative
individual.
Over
time, they will begin to notice things that they hadn't noticed before, and
they will embark on the path of self-discovery and self-empowerment.
Inevitably, they will find that there is a special place for them in this
world, a place where their talent meets the needs of the world. Then there
will be a decisive, joyful and exhilarating moment when they suddenly
realize who they truly are -- spiritual beings who have come forth on this
planet to have an amazing life experience.
This
intense and liberating feeling, as ecstatic as it may sound, will feel quite
familiar to them and it is not surprising: as children, we all felt the
flowing through us of this natural, boundless joy in living, learning and
laughing.
As
more and more people begin to connect to one another through Facebook or
Linkedin or other social networking sites, they will support one another and
engage collectively in a process that will transform the world of work as we
know it. Capitalism will soon be reformed by what I call "talentism,"
that is, the rising awareness that we, as talented human beings capable of
love and passion and growth, are more than just mere human resources. We are
resourceful humans who can unleash our creative powers and change the world.
However,
this kind of romantic career will only happen if we have the courage to
choose a line of work where we can feel energy, passion and inspiration flow
through us with ease and grace. When that happens, we will not only
experience a more authentic career worth loving, but we will also relive a
second childhood.